Marriage comes before sex, marriage comes before children, and marriage comes before kissing. When you meet someone and he or she is not concerned about marriage but only interested in sex, children, kissing, then you have met someone who is ready to use you but not ready to love you.

You need a farm to cultivate a plant, you need a job to earn a salary, you need a TV set to access a channel; it’s not the other way round. You are a thief anytime you go to harvest from a farm which doesn't belong to you even if it has no owner. You are a thief if you earn salary without working.

In love, there is nothing like one person having to act as a fool whilst the other acts as the wise person. This is one of the mistakes people make in relationships and they end up becoming resentful, keeping lots of bitterness and hurt inside. You are hurt yet you can't express your feelings because you see yourself as the fool. To been in love is to be stupid together or wise together, not one being wise and the other a fool.

A Relationship filled with lies is like a balloon; it can fly high but won't get anywhere. It can't endure nor stand the test of time. It’s like a beauty that fades with time, it fades when you need it, it fades when you don't expect it to.

Lies have speed but lack endurance, only the truth does. This makes you wonder why people hide details at the start of a relationship just to win your love.