Have you ever wondered why the man who was so much into you and so excited about you, has become cold towards you all of a sudden. He is always too busy for you and doesn't return your calls as he used to; doesn't seem to care about you like he used to, and yet when you ask what is wrong, he says nothing?
Sometimes you wonder why the woman in your life says ‘I am okay” and refuses to answer your questions, when you know deep within that there is something wrong. This happens because her mind is busy in thoughts; "Is he the right man for me? Am I making a mistake? Why does he treat me like I am nothing to him? Does he really love me? Or is he just leading me on?" These are few of the questions she tries to find answers to.
Ladies, no matter how desperate you are, never marry a man who doesn’t listen to you. Never marry Mr. "Know it all". A man who is always right in his eyes. Even if he is a pastor in a church or a committed Christian, he is still a wrong man for you.
Such a man is arrogant and filled with pride. Living with such a man is like living in hell. He makes you feel like a child or a fool who doesn't matter, who doesn't know their right from left. He sees you as an empty headed person; to him what you bring out is noise.
It is amazing to hear some women being particular about the size of the manhood of their supposed spouse, and whether they are good in bed or not. This curiosity has led most into premarital sex whilst some think the success of a marriage depends on a great sex. But truth be told, women don't need sex. She likes sex, she enjoys it but it is never her need. What a woman needs is affection.
Sometimes when you listen to peoples' love stories, you ask yourself, Is falling in love a blessing or curse? Some people are in immense pains now because of falling in love; some have become bitter as a result of falling in love, whilst others end up killing themselves.
If you are single and can't wait to fall in love, please pause and think twice. Falling in love is so easy; anyone can fall in love with anything. There is nothing wrong with falling in love; the trouble however is falling for the wrong person.
It's scary to say but that is the truth. Technology which was meant to make our lives better is rather causing more harm because of misuse. Partners these days are more compatible with their phones than with their spouse. We can't live a day without our phones but we can live without our partners. We are married to our phones. We treat our phones better than our spouses..
Sometimes some partners are on your neck to tell them your past as if you owe them but the truth is, you don't owe your partner your past. Your past doesn't belong to your partner but to God. A customer has no access to the shipping history of a product. Such information belongs to the shipper and not the buyer. If the shipper decides to reveal that to the buyer or owner, it's only a privilege not a right.
We are products and God is our manufacturer and shipper. Whoever we end up with as a spouse or partner can be termed as the buyer or owner. The product owes them no history.
Women don't need men; a woman is a need to a man and not the other way round. Until every woman knows this and not be the one who needs a man, the one chasing men for marriage but rather becoming the one a man needs, any relationship with a man in the name of marriage will amount to nothing.
Most relationships end not because of the good side of the partners in the relationship but their bad side. As far as we have sinned and fallen short of God’s glory, no human being is ever going to be perfect. No matter how good, nice or wonderful you are, you have a bad side. Call it your weaknesses, we all have it. Something you can't do away with.
The goal of the wife or the woman is to get married to a man with vision, a man with direction, so he can lead her. But the story is different these days with some ladies. Desperation, loneliness and pressure from society is pushing some women to rather lead men with no vision; trying to be a mother for these men they are supposed to get married to; planting flowers in the yard of men who don't have what it takes to water it.