Lots of men are so sick today because of the presence of the woman in their lives. A girl who forces them to meet all their needs and that of their family and friends. They have no call credit on their phones but have bought more than enough for their girlfriends who don't use it to call them but call others and only flash them for more credit when it runs out.
As human beings, we are all part of the body of God and are connected in one way or another. This is why everyone must value relationships and be mindful of how we treat others. The toes you are comfortably stepping on today may be connected to a lip you would love to kiss tomorrow. The one on whose fingers you shut the door on today might be linked to someone who has to open a door for the biggest opportunity of your life tomorrow.
Truth be told, good sex and lies is what it takes to waste ten years of a lady's life. When the sex is good, she accidentally yells "I love you" out of ecstasy, but the truth is, she doesn't love him. To add insult to injuries, is when the guy replies "I love you too" and it feels like they are so much in love and will be together for life.
I have come to realize that some people are mentally immature; they are still in high school in life, and think reporting someone's bad character to their family equals to changing them. Stop reporting your boy or girlfriend to their parents, siblings, friends, etc. They are not the problem rather you. Dating means to study someone for marriage, not to change someone for marriage.
Will your partner still love you if you can't give them sex or satisfy them in bed? Will they stay when you are broke or fired from work? Will they still be with you if you lose your home or you become homeless? What shows your partner will still agree to be with you when you have nothing to offer them? Will they find a way to be with you or look for an excuse to leave you?
There has been this myth circulated by some people that, there is nothing like 'cheating in dating', which is not true. Cheating simply means an act of dishonesty. When you are dating anyone who lies to you, flirts with others, has sex with them, etc, such a person is not loyal to you and this is termed as cheating. This is different from adultery which is voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse.
Most at times, some ladies wonder why their boyfriends or husbands don't respect them, yet the same man shows respect to other women outside. They are at a loss why this is so. The truth is, if any man is disrespecting you today, chances are you accepted that from him yesterday.
Sometimes some partners are on your neck to tell them your past as if you owe them but the truth is, you don't owe your partner your past. Your past doesn't belong to your partner but to God. A customer has no access to the shipping history of a product. Such information belongs to the shipper and not the buyer. If the shipper decides to reveal that to the buyer or owner, it's only a privilege not a right.
We are products and God is our manufacturer and shipper. Whoever we end up with as a spouse or partner can be termed as the buyer or owner. The product owes them no history.
Have you been forced to be in a relationship with someone before, knowing deep within you are not interested, ready or prepared, and yet your supposed partner puts pressure on you to accept them and learn to love them?
Well if you have, then a big sorry to you. Soon you will be forced to return their "I miss you", "I love you", "I am thinking of you", etc. Soon they will try exercising control over you because they feel insecure, and make you feel as though you don't know what is good for you but they know better.
Are you in a relationship or dating someone now when you know you are not ready for marriage? One of the reasons why many people end up in bad marriages is because they started dating at a time they were not ready for marriage; but because they had dated this person for so long, they felt obliged to marry them. Knowing it wasn't what they desired, they prayed and hoped things would get better.