Truth be told, good sex and lies is what it takes to waste ten years of a lady's life. When the sex is good, she accidentally yells "I love you" out of ecstasy, but the truth is, she doesn't love him. To add insult to injuries, is when the guy replies "I love you too" and it feels like they are so much in love and will be together for life.
One of the big question single men ask is, "How do I know she is the right woman God has for me, since he who finds the right woman obtains favour from God?” This means there are some women who are definitely not right for you. One of such women is the one who forces you to have premarital sex with them.
No matter how beautiful they are, how hard working they are, or the role they play in church, if they have to force you to bed or put pressure on you for sex, then she is not the kind of woman who will be a blessing to your life.
Singles these days find it impossible to date someone without sex; to get married without first fornicating. Many are in a no-sex before marriage relationship, yet they kiss, romance, finger, fondle, etc. Sin is the condition of the heart. Just a lustful look or unholy thought of someone qualifies you for sin. If you are not married, no human owns your body; your body is for God. Man can only acquire that through marriage.
It is amazing to hear some women being particular about the size of the manhood of their supposed spouse, and whether they are good in bed or not. This curiosity has led most into premarital sex whilst some think the success of a marriage depends on a great sex. But truth be told, women don't need sex. She likes sex, she enjoys it but it is never her need. What a woman needs is affection.
Marriage comes before sex, marriage comes before children, and marriage comes before kissing. When you meet someone and he or she is not concerned about marriage but only interested in sex, children, kissing, then you have met someone who is ready to use you but not ready to love you.
You need a farm to cultivate a plant, you need a job to earn a salary, you need a TV set to access a channel; it’s not the other way round. You are a thief anytime you go to harvest from a farm which doesn't belong to you even if it has no owner. You are a thief if you earn salary without working.