It is said that the things we don't know is what is causing us and that statement is very true. We are having many problems in our world today because our current generation is so busy trying to prove that women can do what men can do. Women are so busy fighting for equality in everything and end up losing their uniqueness.
Let me tell you, women can never be equal to men, women are not equal to men because that’s how the Creator intended it. If the woman is just like the man and can do exactly what the man does, then there would be no sense in creating them.
Women are created as special beings; a companion and a helper for the man. A helper comes to offer what you can’t do for yourself. It doesn't make you an equal. If the man and woman are equal, God would have given them the same punishment when they sinned in the Garden of Eden.
The woman was created to complement the man and not to compete with him. And because Satan is busily trying to create trouble and disorder in humanity, he has successfully introduced this kind of competition which is breaking marriages, family and the society at large.
Many women have no respect for their husbands just because they see themselves as equals and maybe more superior. Many women are busily chasing careers, wanting to hold offices and positions men hold and by so doing they have neglected their families and responsibilities at home.
Women these days are dressing half-naked, exposing themselves just to match up to men in the name of fashion and civilization. The fact that a man can walk bear chested doesn't mean you should do same. The fact that a man can walk around with an unbuttoned shirt doesn't mean you should dress exposing your chest.
We are created different and unique, that is what makes us beautiful. The world is not your standard but rather God is. If we will learn to go back to the beginning and do things right, we will have a better world.
For those fond of this behaviour, who have believed this lie created by the world; know that women were not created to do everything a man can do. Women are powerful, intelligent, anointed, beautiful and were created to do everything a man can't do.
In case you don't know, men can't get pregnant, men can't give birth, and men are not mothers. Women are mothers, they create generations, nature lives, understand what pain is, she is compassionate. She can take the place of all others but no one can take her place. And if any woman has the grace to do what men can do, it doesn't mean they are equal. Women should be humble and know the man comes before her, submit to him, respect and support him but don't become his competitor, who judges and criticizes him.
Men are supposed to love and protect her, care and provide for her. One of the reasons why most men can't do these is because of the spirit of competition many women have inherited from this world.
There might be things you admire in men, but for the fact that God didn't create you as such or give you that, should tell you clearly you don't need that.
In conclusion "But there is one thing I want you to know: The head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God" - 1 Corinthians 11:3 (NLT).
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