There is one particular woman every mother wishes their son got married to. Not every son might know this but one thing they can notice is, just the mention of this lady’s name puts a smile on their mother's face. Some mothers try as much as possible to even connect their sons to this lady.
Mostly it is because of the lady's character and not just her appearance or the home they come from. Some fathers will insist on the home the lady comes from, her beauty, etc. but most mothers will settle for character, especially if the lady in question is hardworking.
I want to date you is not a marriage proposal or a visa to marriage; it just means I want to study you; I want to find out if it’s worth locking down the rest of my life with you.
It means I want to test you with a small portion of my life today to determine if you are worth entrusting the rest of my life with. It means discovering who you are, your true colours; a friend about whom you learn something new every day.
You often hear this statement "my spouse has changed, he or she is not the same person I got married to". Some people wonder why the sudden change; others decide to use this change as an opportunity to get back to their old behaviour or lifestyle when they were single.
At the end of the day, the beautiful marriage with wonderful dreams comes crushing down, leaving scars of hurt on each other. If there are children, they suffer the most. Sometimes parents end up pouring out the anger and frustration they feel towards their spouse, on these innocent kids.
Women are too special and people sometimes wonder the kind of choices they end up with. Give them something today and they like it, the next minute they don't; in another minute, it seems they don't even know whether they like it or not;
This can make approaching some women you admire like going for an HIV test; waiting for the outcome can be very scary. Does their smile mean a green light? Does their harsh response mean no or just pretense?
There are singles hopping from one relationship into another like a frog on a trip. Their goal is in search for Mr. or Mrs. Right. And in all these attempts, they become disappointed at the end because that is when they get to know the true nature of their partners. They had been with a liar, a cheat, or a thief and only realized it when it was all over. It is really true that you only get to know the true length of a frog when it dies.
It is very unfortunate that many young people these days, see marriage as the ultimate end to their needs; a solution to their all their problems.
Don't go into marriage to be rich, your purpose is to go into marriage to fulfill a divine mandate and also be happy. This will make you value your partner even when things are bad for you in the marriage. You will value the friendship, the love, the family and the union than the price of the clothes you wear, the brand of your car, the salary earned, the size of your mansion, etc .
Expensive dates should never sweep you off your feet, but sadly this is one of the things which makes some ladies fall so deep in a madness called Love.
Why don't you need an expensive date? The simple answer is because you are expensive; in fact you are priceless and can never be bought. It's an insult to be impressed with food, drink and treats in the aid of winning your love.