Daily Motivation

Phone Is Breaking Marriages More Than Demons Do

It's scary to say but that is the truth. Technology which was meant to make our lives better is rather causing more harm because of misuse. Partners these days are more compatible with their phones than with their spouse. We can't live a day without our phones but we can live without our partners. We are married to our phones. We treat our phones better than our spouses..

You Don't Owe Your Partner Your Past

Sometimes some partners are on your neck to tell them your past as if you owe them but the truth is, you don't owe your partner your past. Your past doesn't belong to your partner but to God. A customer has no access to the shipping history of a product. Such information belongs to the shipper and not the buyer. If the shipper decides to reveal that to the buyer or owner, it's only a privilege not a right. 

We are products and God is our manufacturer and shipper. Whoever we end up with as a spouse or partner can be termed as the buyer or owner. The product owes them no history. 

Bad Men Chase Bad Women

No matter how holy or anointed you are as a man, if you descend low to sleep with a prostitute, you are as worse as a prostitute. You are not better off. If you are ready to sleep with a woman who slept with a thousand men, you are as bad as her. You just equalized her record. 

A Woman Doesn't Need A Man

Women don't need men; a woman is a need to a man and not the other way round. Until every woman knows this and not be the one who needs a man, the one chasing men for marriage but rather becoming the one a man needs, any relationship with a man in the name of marriage will amount to nothing. 

Don't Marry Anyone Who Only Sees Good In You

Most relationships end not because of the good side of the partners in the relationship but their bad side. As far as we have sinned and fallen short of God’s glory, no human being is ever going to be perfect. No matter how good, nice or wonderful you are, you have a bad side. Call it your weaknesses, we all have it. Something you can't do away with. 

Don't Follow A Man With No Vision

The goal of the wife or the woman is to get married to a man with vision, a man with direction, so he can lead her. But the story is different these days with some ladies. Desperation, loneliness and pressure from society is pushing some women to rather lead men with no vision; trying to be a mother for these men they are supposed to get married to; planting flowers in the yard of men who don't have what it takes to water it. 

No Hiding In Marriage

For those saying the password is nothing for you, you can equally delete whatever you are hiding and take the password off.  

The question is, if there is nothing to hide,  there is nothing to delete.  And mind you, it is not all conversations that people want to delete especially people cheating. 

They love to keep these chats so anytime they miss their cheating partners,  they can easily go back and read.  Some keep their images and video for the same purpose.  

Forced Relationship

Have you been forced to be in a relationship with someone before, knowing deep within you are not interested, ready or prepared, and yet your supposed partner puts pressure on you to accept them and learn to love them?  

Well if you have, then a big sorry to you. Soon you will be forced to return their "I miss you", "I love you", "I am thinking of you", etc.  Soon they will try exercising control over you because they feel insecure, and make you feel as though you don't know what is good for you but they know better.  

Don't Marry Anyone Who Is Not Open To You

Most people cheating use anger as a cover up for their ill behaviour. You are wrong and because you don't want to be questioned, you adapt the strategy of anger to prevent your partner from talking about it; using that as an escape route. You hurt the one who loves you with your behaviour and act as if you are being hurt. You stabbed the very person you call loved one a thousand times with your actions, and then acted as if you were the one bleeding. 

Don't Marry Anyone Who Put Password On Their Phone

If you are single and thinking of marriage then please don't marry anyone who puts passwords or locks on their phone as a form of security to prevent you from accessing their conversations. They can surely do this for other security measures, but you must not be the reason for this action. I am very much aware that passwords or lock are for security purposes but one thing I don't approve of is when a spouse becomes the reason for that security measure.